And now she is doing it again. Ive went to mediation 3 times and shes never suffered any kinds of repercussions for her actions. Funny how the remedys dont include Contempt of court and/or jail time like they do if you miss a child support payment. Clearly youre looking for a way to run a scam. Me and my father raised them for over three years without any help from her. I have to agree with Linda above. They favor the woman period. 2. What should I do? we dont know what to do anymore, is there something legal that we can do? Being a police officer and a divorced dad I can give some advise. It was me or acs so as a real father and a family man i step up as dad. When this happens, the child's environment may become hostile, unpleasant, and even physically and emotionally damaging (for example, with pushing, hitting, or name-calling in front of the kids). If she truely does not want to go and you do not think it is her best interest to go, do not send her. But they have not set any contact up, which states in the court order. She is also coaching our children into being scared to go with me. This is for you . It hurts too much. In my case, it does apply to me as a father. PHOTOS: Police officer shot in exchange of gunfire with suspect in Duquesne. I there anyway I can get my daughter back? Heres is what happens if the first two things occur. Youre defending yourself. Oh, thats right, youre working so hard. My question is: What are my chances of a judge in Tarrant County granting my request for permission to relocate? he is only to remove her from school when it is his placement time (court order) but the school has let him take her with notification to me , where I need to then call around to find out why she did not get off the bus, or where is she located. 3. I (designated representative) pickup and drop off children at set location. Mothers are given so many chances by the courts but the fathers are always treated unfairly, So untrue I am a mother and have been wronged bc my ex is a dumb narcissistic meth headed gaslighter. Offer to pick the children up. Kids are allowed to call dad anytime. My Husband and his ex girlfriend do not get along, they have a 10 year old daughter together. Youve got all the reasons why you are only doing what you can, and why the mother of your child doesnt really need your help anyway. Not being invilved for 6 years can be considered abandonment. I and the children are now suffering. Will I get in trouble for kidnapping? My wifes baby daddy ignored her calls so she wasnt able to talk to her daughter what should I do? Its so you woman like you can play the I do everything card. And most of all its because you all know you are pocketing a majority of the inflated child support you are receiving and not spending it on the kids. So trust me dads, these Courts go against Good moms too. Until my sons behaviour condition got worse, as he got older he realised he wanted to live with me, which is natural I am his parent . I also hired a private investigator. she will have no choice at that point. My exwife and I have a 50/50 no child support agreement. Mike though I am a mother who been falsely alleged of child neglect and substance abuse by a covert narcissist father of a 18 month old child I couldnt stop my tears reading your post it felt like u poured out my heart. Go back to court immediately asking the court to terminate mother's visitation rights and ordering her to return the child, forthwith. But my ex husband never picks her up or drops her off at our meeting spot his mom and her boyfriend do. The other police officer said, let her go. The officer was responding to the area of Catherine and Savey streets around 12:18 a.m. for a report of shots fired and was immediately met by gunfire, according to a report from Allegheny County police. The ex girlfriend will not help make her go. These cases demonstrate the legal challenges that may arise during these highly emotional exchanges. Better get your butt back to court. My son is now doing the same thing your step daughter is doing, refusing to come to visits, even sending me hateful text messages. my ex is threatning to have me arrested for child abuse tht never happen if i dont leave her and her new boyfriend alonethis is a bunch of bull.when will the courts see what these women do to us fathershavent seen my kids in over 2 years and not sure where they are or if they are even aliveshe had said she would kill them and nothing would happen because she thought she was dying of cancer..so im worried. But there are men who do give up. Social services have never helped me ever. We dont want to get in trouble and that be used against us but he is not safe wherever she is at. How in the world do you know what anyone does with their time? They are not only yours to claim when youre showing off how they have your eyes and how you treated them to ice cream one weekend. In March 2018 till the end of August 2018 social services funded supervisors. Dont be scared by court, opposing counsel or police. All while playing the martyr. Office in Ridgeland, MS. We already had a contempt hearing on this and his motion was denied but he keeps coming with the cops. My kids dad wont let me see or talk to my kids for four months and I have tried everything but no one is helping me to get my kids back. Also the software will allow you to use whatever pictures you have in your possession as reference pictures to compare to all the potential. Bravo!! Can he get into trouble from withholding his son. 2 The mother has left the house regardless of your information to pick up the kids (must have this proof in writing) Who cares if you arent supporting them? And many more men would love to do all of that if the woman would let them have the children 50/50. I wish you luck. I live in Austin Texas, my son supposedly lives in Denton Texas, about 3 and half hours from where I am. But, I was kidless that weekend. You can use forms to help you write your custody and parenting time agreement or submit them to the judge when you ask for a custody order. Go back to court and report hes been absent and ask that the order be adjusted accordingly. Ignoring his tantrum is the very best thing you can do. Most of the time things get better when the dust settle and everybody falls into a post-divorce routine. hes been trying to keep our daughter from me despite a joint custody court order in place. Wants to change it every week to accommodate his drama. Our custody order is I get to see my two young boys every other weekend. I have primary custody of my son. He actually told the kids that they could call the police but police wont help them, they wont do anything to him. Is it specific in times days? UICPD does prohibit some transactions at the Safe Exchange Zone: Illegal transactions, including, but not limited to contraband, narcotics, illegal substances, stolen property, or other illegal items and/or exchanges. And that family is very violent . THE DAD WAS NEVER AROUND. The court will not likely advocate for you, in fact they will see you as a weak person if you dont do the right thing and come to court to enforce visitation. Will this work if Im not the biological father but been there since he was born and I signed his birth certificate? file a motion for custody and move somewhere else. Hed like him to come visit. Any mom or parent out there that is putting her financial situation before the kids and denying 50/50 custody is just scum. all Good parents need to recognize that the problem is bad Judges and bad Attorneys. Instead, the custodial parent must seek a custody modification and provide evidence that spending time with you is harmful for the child. All while going back more and more for child support, medical, etc , all while not working at all, but not caring about the fact that he has to live at poverty level and can barely afford to have them and do things with them. There is, however, a disconnect between theory and practice. Bring a police officer as a witness if theyll come. Keith I my self have been through the same exact problem. I said I will end up calling the police but dont want to have to do that to my son. As a country we need to work to change how child custody works.. My ex husband has struggled to pay child support and is currently in arrears over $9000. As a mother I suffer with all this and i cant force her to go, but under this circunstances i got no other choice but to keep her and shelter her is my duty as a mother to protect my child well been and her dad is only causing pain a griev with his behaivor. Fathers are just as bad about alienating their kids from their other parent. Dont give up. That image is burning in my mind. My boyfriends sons mother. Children are humans that deserve to have a good loving two parent relationship if the other parent is alive, capable and well enough to show they can be a parent. She says, yes I am. Where are you in the grocery store when someone has to tell your child no, they cant have the poptarts with cartoon characters on them? Wanted to take a break from being mommy and she got him over one night out of those four months and only wants him on holidays. How can he have rights when he has not been involved for all these years. As its a private matter, I cannot afford to pay for a contact centre. Cover all your bases. Meet half way to pick up and drop off ask for every other year to calm your child on taxes pay child support and co- parent best you can it is very difficult but it is best for both of you to be in the childs life ask for every other holiday ask for every other weekend and 2-6weeks in summer. I seem to be the only one who cares for her. it took a really long time finding her but eventually we did. hello dacc thank you for the info yes it will be helpful im just going trough this hell pleasekeep in touch maybe i could pick ur brain sometime abouyt issues i have noone to really talk aboout or too. I wish I could still have some of the burdens that my ex took so nobly for her herself. She wants to see our son 3 weekends a month on Fridays and Saturdays. How many career opportunities have you given up or failed at because you put the priorities of your children first? So what if the father moved away to Prescott Az when his daughter was 4 years old never contaced her or paid his child support not a penney I have filed against him several times they can never locate him. No property in her name, no house phone in her name, no utilities in her name nothing I cant find her because she owns nothing! Good luck, Even divorcing parties that are able to resolve financial or other serious issues amicably sometimes find that the discussion about child custody and visitation can become a point of contention. How many hours do you spend each week helping with homework, and are you paid to do it? As he approached the truck, a gold or dark gray vehicle approached. If you have a court approved parenting plan then you are legally obligated to follow it. I am remarried and have a 5 year old son with my husband. I have done everything since day 1. if your children are disabled they cant run away. 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